Hi, Jess - It's been a while since I used blogger... There might be an easier way, but that's the way I have found it to work... and I tend to always go the longest way doing anything! :) Here goes: I'm pretty sure in the top part of your blogger window there should be something called "Design" and what you're hoping to add are called pages in the "Header" under the design section. You add pages the same way you add a post -- there's a link called "Edit pages" that will let you add and edit the links that will show up in the header. I'm sorry I've not been commenting much, but I've been keeping up when I can - your little girl is ADORABLE!
babyattheend summed it up pretty good. If there is not a widget already dedicated to "pages", you will have to click on "add a gadget" and select the "pages" one. Just copy and paste the permalink to the post you want to link to.
Rebecca, that is how I added the HOME link (that is not there now). But I can't see how to add a second page. And the HEADER one I am using for my title and blog description. hmmmm....I must be doing something wrong.
From your dashboard, click "Edit Posts." You should see several MAIN tabs... Posting, Comments, Settings, etc. Under those MAIN tabs you'll notice small tabs/links... New Post, Edit Posts, Edit Pages. Click on "Edit Pages" & from there you can create new pages. =) Hope that helps & makes sense! =)
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